No Matter Who It Is, It's Always You

Here's a reality check on manifestation.

We can write, set the intention, vision board, speak, and dream about what we'd like to manifest into reality, which can feel like wishing on a star or hoping it will come true. But our external reality is a reflection of our internal one.

When we outsource (to the stars, entities, other people, another course), we've got to be sure we don't lose the thread, the one that connects us to it.

I had a conversation with a business coach recently about the difference between delegating and abdicating responsibilities within business. The same concept applies with our manifestations and what we desire to happen in our lives.

When we offer the manifestation of our dreams to someone or something outside of ourselves and just "set it and forget it," we're abdicating. And it doesn't work like that.

When we abdicate, we say, "You do it," and "Just do it for me," and "You're the expert, it'll be better if you just take it on," and we may find things go off the rails and become misaligned and we're way off course.

When we delegate, we say, "I'm handing this over, but I'm in it too. I have the final say. I'm flowing myself into this with you. We're collaborating."

We can't abdicate our manifestations because manifestation is the result of who we are, who we've been being, energetically. It's the 3D that aligns with our 5D.

I have been guilty of abdicating without realizing I was doing it. It was a huge lesson for me and one I'm very careful about not repeating.

No matter who or what we're outsourcing our desires to, we have to do the work to be a match to that desire within ourselves first, and then flow that into who or what we're delegating to. It's not "hey, I want this, please give it to me," and then get pissed when we don't get it.

We are who we want to solve the problem, manifest the dreams, create the legacy.

It's always us first.

If we can't hold in our conscious and subconscious minds, our nervous system, our emotions, and our energy what is a match to our desires, we won't ever have it (or we'll get to hold it for a second and then it will disappear).

Getting frustrated with the source you've outsourced your manifestation to because it hasn't happened yet will keep you stuck in a loop of more of the same.

This is evidence you've abdicated, given up your throne, what you need to be part of in order to truly manifest.

No matter who it is, it's always you.

The absolute flex is to own that you are the one who will make it come to fruition.

Then you put on your big girl pants (and maybe a crown) and you start to step back in as the powerful, sovereign soul who's having a human experience. You begin taking more ownership and responsibility for what is (that you've already manifested) and manifesting what you desire.

How do you need to evolve in order to hold what you dream of? Where do you need to step more fully into your responsibility in bringing it to fruition?

What I'm personally putting out there is enormous, but I'm fully aware of how much it asks of me to make it come to fruition, and I'm game. It's why I live the way I live and ask to see where I'm in the way of the manifestation becoming my reality. It's why I do the inner work I do with ease, because I know the difference between living with it in place and freeing myself from it.

What are you wishing were already yours or already done? What's your relationship to it becoming done? Are you an active part of it, or are you wishing it could be done without you?