How's Your Antenna?

Have you seen that video of the woman who had the gift of water divination, who found like a hundred sources of water for digging wells? She looks unique while operating in her gifts. But her antenna was attuned to water, particularly the unseen kind.

As I sat down to write this week, I knew it was meant to be about how we find our people, how we use our energy to decide if that person or that group is our people.

I had eight to ten meetings with different people and groups this week, and they went a little something like this:

Totally blitzed my nervous system. Made me realize why twenty-somethings don't need my work yet. Amazing connection with someone I met at the meeting that blitzed my nervous system. Absolutely dreamy room with high-vibe women doing beautiful things in their lives every day. Lackluster, immediate "no" energetically with someone at the blitz meeting. Ooof, this used to be a room I wanted to be in, and it's clearly not anymore. I'm not like the other "healers" in this room, which is what sets me apart. One hundred percent aligned walk with a new friend. One hundred percent aligned coffee with a newer friend.

None were a waste of time, even when they weren't a match. Each showed me how tuned in I am to my inner guidance system. That would be my soul leading me through my energetic frequency to find harmony or dissonance, and me being willing to listen and follow through on the guidance I receive.

This stacked week of interactions was kind of fun (but I don't want to do it again anytime soon, honestly). It was like a fast montage of scenes that, as I revisit them, showed me how quickly I received the insight about where I was at and what each was trying to teach me.

As the montage ended, I found myself in a state of greater wisdom and empowerment just because I learned something about myself through every interaction. I walked away feeling grateful that my logical mind no longer dictates where I "should" go or who I "should" be connected to.

My antenna is getting freed up.

I'm not sad about how deeply I needed to learn the lesson of positioning others as authority over myself. I know, even in the depths of the painful middle, that there are diamonds in the refinement if I just keep myself willing to see what I'm being shown.

The thing I'd been learning so hard, so long? I finished it my way.

As I wrap up this layer of deep learning, I'm already feeling the embodiment of the wisdom. I can feel it in my energy, I hear it in my thoughts, I see it in my actions. And it's happening almost instantly.

It's collapsing the gap between where I am and where I'm headed next.

Where I would have made myself lean a bit further into a person or expert or group because it might be good for me or my business, I don't. I'm so attuned to where I'm meant to be that I'm not spending time in places I'm not meant to be.

Does that mean there might be some awkward-for-a-moment conversations as I say "no thank you"? Maybe. But I'm pretty comfortable with awkward, so who gives a rip. That conversation is far less costly than staying in a place I'm not meant to be.

Same goes for you. You don't show up in your fullest expression when you're shapeshifting to fit into spaces you're not meant to be in (or be in anymore, like a relationship or career).

But if you've bent your antenna because you've forced it to aim in a particular direction (you might not even realize you're programmed to do it), you're not going to get accurate information from it. You'll end up in all the wrong places and for too long.

So, how's your antenna? Straight as an arrow and leading you with precision? Or more like a flaccid noodle leading you nowhere good?

I hope you find yourself in the most epic spaces and leave the ones that don't feel like they're meant for you with efficiency.